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I'm playing a long game. How do I know if my influence is making a difference?

The worst kind of waste is the discarded actions we do not recognize as worthy. We have the capacity to learn from most experiences we particpate in.This is a question I have been asked over the years many times. As we begin working with people there's a need to meet the person where they are and feel what is being shared is meaningful. We all seek to help in different capacities and there's no shortage of opportunities to challenge us when we are actively participating in life. As long as you are encouraging the subject's best self and your own, creating good memories with people around you, and assisting people by sharing your knowledge, nothing that you do can be wasteful. Inspire the best in each other as you learn, teach, and have adventures. Service is a performance art and we offer it to each other daily. You can remain silent and have someone be grateful you made sure they were not alone.

When you have shared goals with others all of you should know where you stand. There may not be finishing touches to share but there will be updates of involvement as you move together on a journey. Hone your skills through practice and diversify your subjects. Not every person is the same, nor every influence attempt. If you are going to play a long game, like the person asking this, let your preparations and work play out. Don't rush them or ask for proof they are working. Listen, observe, and adjust with the behavioral expressions of the person you work with. Don't mind read what might be. These skills take time to develop and its more than just memorizing techniques. What are your thoughts on this question?

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