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Let's talk pleasure conditioning

Let's talk pleasure conditioning. In my opinion there should be an element that pushes and pulls the subject towards the desired behavior. This is a community challenge that I posted to those in my private Facebook group. What are your thoughts? Can you apply it to an example that clearly designates a command for the subject to respond in context?

First let's define erotic hypnosis as I think about it and use it, because pleasure conditioning builds from this foundation. I’d define hypnosis, (and erotic hypnosis), as focused goal directed, altered state of consciousness that is usually induced by another person, and this state allows us greater access to communicate with the subconscious. The hypnotic state can enhance sexual experiences by removing inhibitions, amplifying the senses, and intensifying sexual responses. We can create realistic fantasy experiences from exploration with erotic hypnosis often comes paired with a power exchange relationship or experience, but it does not have to. What is erotic to one person may be a turn off to another, so feedback and consistent communication is needed to achieve unrestrained goal directed pleasure simple tactile sensations or elaborate role-play scenes like Master/slave, pet play, becoming someone else, and much more. Many people use hypnosis to amplify feelings of sexual arousal, submission, and to develop increased sexual responsiveness to training cues. The nature of exploration with erotic hypnosis often comes paired with a power exchange relationship or experience, but it does not have to. What is erotic to one person may be a turn off to another, so feedback and consistent communication is needed to achieve unrestrained goal directed pleasure.

Pleasure conditioning is a useful tool for every practicing hypnotist. For example, feeling the pleasure of getting lost in trance...It’s okay to get lost in thoughts.... To ponder.... discovering pleasure pulls you to closer to something more, better... To dwell in between both words and moments that steer you to the best you have ever felt, today... Think of someone who loves going to a country fair. Is it the Ferris wheel, the smell of popcorn and food, or games that make you want to be there? These are all pleasures that can be utilized to gather engagement for inductions or a good conversation, and there is no stick in this example. You could add one. It doesn't take much to bring in a fight with a girlfriend or boyfriend, realizing the rent is due and any money spent here will be from next week's paycheck. It doesn't take much to think of elements that could detract from an experience and you could easily utilize attraction and aversion to move a subject back and forth. Should you efficiently want to use Push and Pull in your pleasure conditioning than be certain that all the choices bring the subject to redirect themselves towards your main goal. You can have more than one for each session. Push in Pull allows opportunities for choice and intensity to develop naturally as the choices converge.

Some people just use pleasure and pain, but passion and daily choices can be connected in Push or Pull pleasure conditioning. Including pain and pleasure allows us to begin designing integrative choices and opportunities that develop along with our relationships. Push and Pull allows us to elicit and amplify motivation strategies and condition them as emotionally charged behavioral choices. A motivation strategy follows a step-by-step sequence that gets you from one state to another focused state or serves to consistently cycle you within a specific state. You would follow through with any cognitive behavioral strategies associated with these states anytime you’d be motivated to be within them. Pleasure conditioning with Push and Pull instructions can be used to create propulsion system(s) that keeps the subject cycling through amazingly wonderful states as you test, tune, and direct them into more intense emotional and cognitive states. A propulsion system is a cyclical cognitive and behavioral feedback structure that maintains engagement of the subject by stimulating the pain, loss, fear, or pleasure, achievement, anticipation to keep them involved and consistently redirecting them back within this cognitive structure.

Let's run through a quick example without the pleasure conditioning so you can understand the power of this. Imagine in front of you is your best self who happens to be multi-orgasmic with a high sex drive. This self attracts people, opportunities, and is taking steps to live your best life. This self represents the best of which you can be and has the potential to fulfill the wants, dreams, and desires that matter to you.

Behind you is the old you. They are bored and people often avoid that person. You can see they are stuck, sad, and irritable but still not willing to help themselves at times, or maybe they're just unable. This person has problems and its not getting better. This self represents the worst of which you can be and has the repeatedly failed to achieve the wants, dreams, and desires that matter to you. Even worse is now and again there’s hope, but its always given up on after some time.

All by itself our best selves should be enough to pull us forward but sometimes we get tired or complacent. There are times we know a particular choice will set us back and we give in not because we want to. We give in because it was easy and promise part of tomorrow to fix today. At that point our routine motivational thinking can be derailed for a time. Oftentimes other people and environmental stimulus are needed to get people back on track, but not with a push pull propulsion. Sure we have the best self with benefits in front of us and the worst case scenario of living our life behind us, but we've also got choices all around each one. So all those choices bring us closer or farther away from the best and worst case standards that we can conceive of today. If the subject does nothing than the worst case scenario pushes closer and the best self is pulled farther away. Each and every choice makes the subject begin to become aware and attuned to how their decisions are affecting their emotional and cognitive state.

For example, if I was going to eat something off my diet, some consider it cheating, I’m going to eat that one cupcake or treat with absolute joy. If I don’t get that delicious emotion and enjoyment it isn’t worth the calories and with that standard I leave behind any guilt. It becomes uncomfortable to make bad choices or settle down into complacency as each choice will makes this push pull experience better or worse. This moving expectation of cognitive behavioral feedback is a critical piece of the propulsion system and you have the choice of establishing it as always on to increase intensity and motivation or triggered to begin and end. When the spirit is moved all is given over to you.

There are many ways to get a propulsion system set up and running. Let's go over creating a propulsion system up using sounds as anchors. Choose to set up three positive sounds associated with great happy or pleasurable memories and two negative sounds associated with unhappy or hurtful memories. The sounds could be laughter, a chorus from a favorite song, someone going “Mmmmm”, the crack of a baseball bat hitting a ball for a homerun, someone angrily yelling “No” or a door slamming. These are just some suggestions so use what makes sense to you and is meaningful in your own life. If you have trauma do not use traumatic events for your practice in these concepts.

For this exercise set these sounds in geographic place around the subject as anchors to those memories and states. Place the two negative sounds behind the subject on their right and left sides. Place the three positive sounds in geographic location in front of the subject, and the strongest or best sound anchor should be directly in front of them. The location of the sound anchors is based on the cognitive and emotional strategy for affecting the subject’s motivation by setting off the sound anchors as you tell a story describing challenges, tests, and moving towards something the subject wants. This method allows me to pace around the subject during a conversation or in hypnosis, and pause in a location that stimulates a push or pull response for the subject as it relates to the story or command given. A variation on this method would be using a location on the back of the subject’s body to establish the negative anchors and the front of their body to establish the positive ones. As long as your descriptions consistently include both away from and towards instructions and commands you're building a propulsion system.

Ask the subject about what is important to them and what they want in the future. Next, you can do this conversationally or you can hypnotize the person and proceed to describe a story about what the subject just told you. When ready to proceed your story should focus on what the subject wants and their desired future. You explain that as they live their life there will be obstacles to overcome and challenge them. These obstacles and challenges test them to develop and adapt. You begin firing off the sounds to trigger those strong emotions as you stand and speak from their respective locations around the subject. You begin to transition out of negativity to positive emotions and memories and have them notice their motivation increasing as the story progresses. At first mainly negative anchors are elicited, but soon those positive ones are utilized more as the story talks about increased motivation, proper action, and attending to all the right details. As the story concludes you'll use only the positive ones as this is desired state, and it is the work done now that will sustain and develop it.

I've given you a few ways to improve your art and play more today. If you liked this post and want to learn more keep an eye out for my upcoming book, Instruction of the Hypno Dom. How do you utilize pleasure conditioning with your subjects? Reach out and share your voice and passion.

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Joseph W Crown Enjoy your toys and give the gift of Mind Control to those deserving few. You can find The Tao of Relationship Maintenance for Mind Controllers live on amazon at Paperback Version Seek with your passion, and journey with a welcoming heart and grateful spirit. We are all unknowing seekers who bring with us stories describing the path we've tread. To live with mind controllers you must be accepted as their tribe, learn their dance, and never forget that this is but another hat to wear.

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