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Highlighting Kassie Lambert, An Agent of Influence of 2022

This award has been bestowed on Kassie Lambert, who goes by many names over the years in the Lifestyle, such as Stiflers Mom, Momma Kass, Agent of Influence, girlfriend, boyfriend, third, switch, Bi furious, boss lady, bouncer, teller of all wrongdoings, as well as a few uninvited names. For 2022 she holds the honor of receiving the greatest number of nominations from people from many lifestyle communities in Louisiana and the surrounding area. This is the story of a life-changing impact she's made on many of us, and it can only highlight some of the things she's done. Kassie is a role model of leadership in the lifestyle communities. Leadership is a privilege. Everything she does embodies this. When you are in a leadership role, your influence will affect the trajectory of people's engagement, passions, opportunities, careers, and the lives of many that we don't see. This is where the leader’s dilemma typically begins. Leaders especially hesitate to ask for their needs and prefer to be on the giving end. This is the perfect segway into the introduction to who Kassie is.

Kassie has created communities and spaces where people could be fully themselves. The people that nominated her spoke of how working with her in the lifestyle provided a source of social interactions, friendships, independence, a sense of accomplishment, acceptance, satisfaction, a reason to get up in the morning, happiness, a sense of identity, recognition, and respect. People shared how Kassie has listened, held their hair when they were sick, and provided a shoulder to cry on when they felt broken. Many spoke about her as a mentor. Kassie came out as Bisexual at 19 years old. She suffered from prejudice, hate, drama, and discrimination. Her response and how she dealt with it were commendable. Unfortunately, this experience was not much different from many other people coming out. Kassie sought to push back prejudice, help others in similar circumstances, and she is now a seasoned veteran of the alternative lifestyle community as a whole.

Beginning at a young age, Kassie learned what made a lifestyle club successful, and has been part of many, helped establish lifestyle membership clubs, and with her fiance, Dustin, are now running the Kinky Cajun Coalition. Even after having a Stage 2 Stroke in 2021, she discovered that she was not done. Kassie missed the work, the community, and bringing people together. Kassie and Dustin have been described as willing to do almost anything to help others. Kassie is drawn to this because, as she serves the community, she is also finding meaning and purpose in the community. We need more people like Kassie and Dustin who bring a different way of doing things, one that respects everyone, and includes all lifestyles, ages, and reasonable beliefs.

Currently, Kassie is encouraging everyone to join her, and many others as we live our lives full of love and adventure in Hades en Kore' Events, social media group. Their Club grand opening will be soon!

I am proud to introduce Kassie Lambert, the owner/founder of the Kinky Cajun Coalition, Est 2014, and Council Member & Executive Director of Hades en Kore' Community. I'd close this with one of the statements I received in the nomination of Kassie.

"Many of us can't believe that we're still living this life after all these years. I'm so happy to have made many of my friends here. And I love being part of a group of people who understand what we're doing and support us in our lives and choices. We've become our own kind of family."

I look forward to what you create in the new year.

The 2022 Agent of Influence Awards for the Lifestyle Communities has begun! These awards a designed to celebrate and promote the contributions of individuals and organizations that contribute positively to arts and culture that bring out the best and kinkiest parts of being human.

Go to the article to find out more and nominate your candidate for this award.

Please nominate others because this is the community celebrating others who have made a difference in our lives

Joseph Crown

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