Create your community

My goal with this blog is to encourage and establish a community culture that realizes a more collaborative global utopian vision under the banner of the Tao of the Crown. This site will be a gateway to my work, connection, and the many opportunities in developing this community.

Can you help bring out my inner sadist?

All too often in helping relationships, what needs to be said is what one person does not want to say, and the other does not want to...

An Answer to when is it time to end training?

The question of when to stop training is a search to clarify priorities and values of what we have, what we are doing, and where we might...

An answer to observing a scene gone wrong

This post was inspired by an email I received. It brings together many issues that we have to engage with when inviting others to join us...

Agent of Influence Awards Closing Friday 12/18/20 and A Private Whiskey Toast Announcement

Time is running out to recognize someone for an Agent of Influence Award. Noble community members have until December 18th to award...

In Response: What's kinda like playing with yourself but isn't?

Every day I get questions from people that attended one of my trainings, read my blog, or my books. Once I get the same question again...

Made a positive impact in the community through hypnosis, influence, BDSM, or relational kink?

Until December 18th we are looking for individuals within the local and national community who have made a positive impact in the...

How to support content creators and influence the local and national community

By definition, all of us on social media are content creators. We are sharing our stories, opinions, memes, poking fun at stereotypes,...

NOLA Kink Community Update & The 2020 Agent of Influence Awards

2020 has been like a story right out of the B movie reels and pulp fiction noir. It is my sincere hope that with your assistance, we can...

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