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The Necessity of Experiential and Personal Development Plans

Consider for a moment that your experience is the product of your actions, thinking, capabilities, opportunities, challenges, and literally your operational living. Think about you and the experience of being you as a business venture with you at the center of it. There are many departments that take care of the things that you don’t have to think about and the details of reports are brought to mind so you can choose the best course of action moving forward. Running a successful business can be harder than you think and you have to find time for yourself amidst the flurry of activity within the habitual routines to function at your best. There’s so much to do and so little time to do it. Even in the highest efficiency operations, there are many things that fall by the wayside on a daily basis and that doesn’t even take into account any emergency that arises. Honestly, it can feel hard sometimes to even do the basic things that we need to keep ourselves together. Our daily experience affects getting a good night’s sleep, our level of hydration, if we get an uninterrupted meal, if we’re craving intimacy, and so much more. Similar to new parents feeling the burnout and tradeoffs from a disjointed routine we will start to imagine the lost time made up for, and what it will be like once their kids are grown. Before life gets to survival mode and dreaming of better days ahead, you’ll need to take a good look at yourself, where you are lacking, where you are thriving, and where you want to go. Just like a business you should take the time to document your life and develop an experiential plan to live well and develop.

Taking time for yourself while you have responsibilities can feel selfish at times, but that time is an investment in areas left dormant, or worse suppressed to get everything else done. This is a bit ironic given that your business functions out of your own personal ambitions, interests, attention, energy, and focus. We all have seen CEOs and budding professionals move even their families to a temporary backseat while they put their company’s interests before their own. Choosing the best course of action is not always easy but daily operations shouldn’t stunt your personal growth and development. Our personal lives should enrich us, motivate us, and expand our worldview to seek out challenges and learning opportunities that we likely never would have encountered on our own. Our personal lives are the foundation that we explore the world. The development of our characteristics, story, and fulfillment of basic and developmental needs encourages us to define and create. So we must begin to find ways to design our best life to establish our best self.

It’s easy to dismiss courses, seminars, books, movies, conversations, and intimacy that comes your way as unnecessary distractions or potential inconveniences at times. Those hours are time that could be spent on the work at hand, money that could be going into the focus of business at the moment, and those sentiments are often magnified if an experience requires travel. That time and focus put in one area are removed from another. It’s worth thinking about what might be gained in an experience. The topic of relationship maintenance is one that is often taken for granted especially when that relationship is one that directly affects ourselves. When many people get stressed the first thing they throw to the side is exercise, their diet, their sleep, and intimacy. Personal development might not be something that you devote much time to in the grand scheme of your life, but it should be something that you give due consideration to. I’ve layered these concepts into my books because the concepts themselves are layered into my life. Into all our lives truly. None of us are finished products as people, professionals, or Dom’s. We are all connected and our personal lives allow us to grow together or farther apart.

It’s a challenge to make yourself a priority among all the other demands of your life, to be sure. Even with the best intentions, everything that isn’t of the utmost urgency, or isn’t a flashing-red light with a designated buzzer to announce the day’s emergency is undoubtedly going to get pushed off to a later time more often than not. That’s why we need a plan. We need peers we can create routines with that matter. We need connections to inspire us and move us in directions that involve growing together with what matters. It’s worth taking a bit of time out from your daily schedule to advance yourself and check in with all the people that give life meaning. We should look to iterate upon ourselves as much as what we create. To that we need to share in the journey we are part of and it’s going to take a better version of us to push our lives beyond what we currently think is possible.

I work with a lot of individuals who identify what they do with the experience of what it means to be themselves. To work like play we must be in love with what we are doing. Be present and create a plan to discover and indulge in the design and direction of your life. Our life will change. Our plans will change. The people in our lives will change. So take the time to create your best life. Take the time to invest in what brings you joy and inspires you to share that with the world. When you do that you’ll never have to worry about attracting the people that should be there. You will find that the quality of your life represents the quality of your interests, your thoughts, your character, and you share that story with others every day. You are the brand for your business. That business is living a life that will thoughtfully manage the best that the world offers each day. If you are not taking the time to do this than who will?

The flower doesn’t dream of the bee. It blossoms and the bee comes. It’s my hope you will gather the associations of life from my words and work to chart a plan for a life that matters to you.

Joseph Crown

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